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......我还是最好把自己的人生过得比他们的表情更精彩。↓

As I grow older,I see stupidity everywhere.
I realise I should cultivate a quality circle around myself.
Also I know what is important to myself.↓
当我年龄渐长,我看到了随处不在的愚昧;
我意识到自己需要的是一个高质量的朋友圈;
我也明白了对自己最重要的是什么。↓
1
「保护自我」
When I get older, I don’t care for pointless drama anymore.
当我年龄渐长,我不再喜欢生活中有莫名其妙夸张的戏剧性场景和事件。
I realize not everyone deserves a seat at the table of my life.
我意识到要在我的生活中占据一席之地,不是每个人都值得。
Some people don’t deserve any trust. It would be a serious mistake to let them into my circle.
有些人就不值得信任,让他们进入我的圈子会是一个严重的错误。
I’ve come to understand the value of privacy.
我慢慢明白了保持自我隐私的价值。


2
远离小人
As I get older, I am sick of listening to some people who tell me what others have said about me.
我年龄渐长,听到有人告诉我,说别人说了我这样那样,我就觉得恶心。
So I just ask them , please tell me how come those people are so comfortable to say all this to you?
所以我直接就问他们,那您先说说,您怎么就会让那些人兴致勃勃地在您面前嚼这些舌根的?
As I get older, I learn to bite my tongue in front of fools, because I come to understand my silence will shut them up sooner.
当我年龄渐长,我学会了在蠢人面前保持沉默。因为我明白了,沉默以对反而可以让他们尽快闭嘴。

3
享受人生
我年龄渐长,总算明白了为什么大多数墓志铭只需要写下出生日和去世日。多数人的一生中,只有两个重大事件,也就是出生和去世。中间乏善可陈,不值得记述。
When I get older, I realize why most epitaphs only need a birth date and a death date. Most people only have two important events, which were the birth and the death. Nothing really significant and worth writing happened in between.
Just like some wise man says, too many people are not living their dreams, because they are too busy living their fears.
就像一个智者说的,太多的人没法为梦想而生,因为他们忙于活在自己的恐惧忧虑中。
Considering the fuss my family made when I was born, and the fuss they probably will make when I die, plus some friends might do the same, at least on their social media......
Hmm...... I'd better make a better fuss about my life.

考虑到我出生时家人表现出的大惊小怪,再想想我死的时候他们还会这样。何况,几个朋友很可能也会至少会在他们的社交媒体上大发一番感慨。
......
想来想去,嗯,......我还是最好争取把自己的人生过得比他们的表情更精彩吧。↓
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